Okay people, Lets hear some thoughts on this.when your truely in love with someone could you step back and love them enough to do so.So they could take the time they need to heal there pain and sorrow of past or current relationships,so they could heal there Heart. Could You do it , knowing that the incredible love you feel for that one person who is your Heart, knowing it might destory your heart if that one love,fell in love with someone else while healing themself or you found out they don't  love you. COULD YOU DO IT?

and my personal update:

Well I did and now she's probably gone forever, and with her she takes my heart deeper and harder than I thought possible.